Who Else Wants To Throw Their Insecurities Out The Window And Be Admired As A
Brilliant And Beautiful Bombshell?

Gain the attention and respect from both men and women by discovering the rules that were never taught in school, with techniques you can actually put into action right away.

Have you ever wanted to know what it feels like to be admired the instant you walk into a room?

Or wish you knew what to say or do with your hands and body when making introductions?

Do you want to feel your doubts and fears go away and be replaced by a real and strong self-image?

People are constantly trying to bring us down, even the ones who love us. They don’t always mean to, but their words and actions can make us forget what is important- or even true, and keep us from moving forward on our hopes and dreams.

If you have ever had someone tell you that your ideas are unrealistic or shouldn’t even be bothered with, you know how it feels. Even worse is when someone makes a crude comment towards you out of nowhere.

It hurts. And especially when it comes from the people closest to you. Their opinions can catch us off guard and leave us with all these uncertainties. There is nothing like the stuck feeling you get when you don’t have that honest-to-goodness support backing you up.

It’s not that you want to be stuck, or even want to feel like others have made such an impact on you. It is okay if their words have gotten to you before- those claws go in deep, and it’s not your fault. We have all let it happen to us at one point.

When you don’t know the simple techniques to protect and enhance your confidence, it’s like being thrown out to a pack of hungry wolves. It’s no wonder you feel the way you do.

And those feelings don’t have to stay with you. The gem hidden inside all of this is that thankfully- this is a present in disguise. I personally never expected the worst feelings given to me by others to suddenly become the push for greatness I needed. It surprised me and came as a relief to get this burden off of my shoulders.

And even better is when I discovered ways to prevent those feelings from returning- or even new ones from lingering, while increasing my confidence all at once. I now know how to protect myself and most importantly, my self-image.

What Do You Have To Do?

Because every part of this focuses on you strengthening your character and attitude, what you have to ends up being fun along the way. These are actions you can feel good about while you put them into practice- you are making yourself better than ever.

It is the small things we do for ourselves each and every day to improve our happiness and confidence that make results. If you want to be brilliant and beautiful, then you must educate yourself and put things into practice. A lady of elegance is noticed for her constant graces seen in action. And the more you understand and feel true within your body, the more radiant and natural you become.

Take One Small Action Each Day

If you only do one small thing- it makes a world of difference! Small, seemingly simple actions grow over time to become the qualities we love best about ourselves. And the qualities others admire in us.

Now, the one thing that can change it all has to do with how you think. If you want to grow into something great, then you must be willing to give yourself the chance. You must have a belief in yourself. You must believe you can develop the best of yourself. If you can imagine it, then you can be it.

Know What You Want To Achieve

Fortunately we are able to have guidance bring out our own discoveries. And what I mean by that is this-

It has to be our own mind that has the realization, the eyes opened, the true understanding, the determination and want. BUT, since we don’t know what we don’t know until we… well, know- guidance from those with experience and knowledge can bring us to the realization we were looking for.

You know you want something- an image, something to feel proud of about yourself as you go about your business. That special something that makes you a respected lady of elegance, Something that can bring you to higher goals and acheivements.

Knowing what you want to achieve is part of it all. You don’t have to know everything right now- there is always room to discover more. It’s part of life. And you discover it by giving yourself the opportunity to.

Take Lessons From Those Who Have Been There

This is a lesson on its own. When I was a small child, since even before my feet could reach the ground while sitting at the dinner table, my mother and aunt guided me and made their principles a part of my developement and life. Both my mother and aunt were intelligent and beautiful ladies who lived these principles of elegance and confidence to the highest potential.

My aunt was born in Austria and raised with strict manners. When she arrived in America, she had to make a new beginning, carrying only her principles with her. From that new beginning, she created a successful business and was admired and respected by the community as an elegant and brilliant lady.

She and my mother would host the most elaborate parties, with every detail taken care for. And me as a small child in this household, I would have my role to see that everything was looked after as well. They would include me in all their motions, letting me participate where appropriate, watch carefully in instances where I was too young, and show me how important these principles are to life.

My dad, a genius chess master, always made sure I was never in the dark when it came to expanding my knowledge. It may have frustrated me at times then, but now I am forever grateful for those techniques and lessons. He gave me a beautiful balance to add to what my mother and aunt would show me.

As I grew older, they gave me more lessons, more stories, and more instances for me to participate. It became a natural part of who I was, and was a huge factor to my confidence. It also gave me the opportunities to succeed in all my dreams.

There Was A Time When I Was On My Own

For the first time at least. Both my mother and aunt passed away as I was nearing my late teens and getting ready to be on my own as it was. And so for me, being on my own for the first time, all I had was me.

All I had to show to the world was myself, as I was. No connections, no millions of dollars from mom and dad to fund me, no comprehensive resume wowing my competition. I had to start somewhere after all, and the only thing I could show for myself was myself. And I decided to make the most of it.

So off I went to find jobs in the industries that interested me. I was still very young at the time and this was my first job, without prior professional experience.

Imagine their surprise when a young lady they had never heard of came walking in with something different. I came with a strong image completely confident in who I was. Image being everything, their curiosity was piqued. You can bet I got their attention.

The Right Image Gets Doors To Open

I did not have a resume filled with experience, but I did know the rules of greetings and conversations. What you write on a piece of paper is one thing but how others see you before a word is even read on a resume is even more important.

After a couple years gaining some knowledge and experience it was time to move to Miami. I went without knowing a soul but confident that things would work out for the best

I made my first contact and went to interviews with so much success that within my first week, I had been accepted at five different places. I was able to chose where I wanted to live and work And that is a luxury.

People wanted me and my image. And it was image that opened the door.

What Separates You From Others Is Your Image.

What Is Yours Saying?

Whether you pay attention to it or not, it is there and is the first thing taken into consideration. You can let it work in your favor or you can let it work against you. It’s up to you. How you strengthen your image comes from having the right tools to guide you to the top.

Follow The Bombshell Beauty Principles So You Can

Gain Attention And Respect

Admiration, confidence, beauty, and power will radiate from you so you can become your own Bombshell Beauty Icon. A true icon- one that meets the qualities admired in your eyes.

Forget the Hollywood nonsense. Hollywood types will envy your beauty and grace! These principles are the reason I am as happy as I am, having accomplished my own dreams and constantly succeeding in new ones. I understand the Bombshell Beauty principles and the importance of image, and it has rewarded me greatly. Including what I am able to do for the people I love around me.

I’ve continued to live by these principles, letting them make me the very best me imaginable. And with these secrets you will be ready to

Be the elegant lady of your dreams

Having the confidence to make connections

Be on the VIP list to exquisite parties

Walk on red carpets

Pose for the press

Or even just to

Host an enjoyable evening with friends

Have a day at the races and a night at the opera

Make the interview you’ve been waiting for

Meet your new love interest’s friend and family

Make the most of your time to bring out your ideal dream image

If you want to become something great you must grab the golden opportunities yourself and not give up to be forever frustrated in the dark. Neglecting ourselves and ignoring such chances can put a heavy weight on us and cause us to forget what is important in our lives. It can happen without us even being aware.

And you don’t want to be miserable. You want to love what you do each day and feel great about it the whole way through.You want a make a difference in your world and leave an impact on those around you. You want to do something each day to contribute to who you are and your happiness.

Life brings us to interesting places, and the path is never perfect. It would be too dull if that were the case. Things happen, events take place, and it all leads us to who we are. How we chose to handle those events is the difference that makes some rise above and others fall deep.

We have all gone through difficult emotions and circumstances, it’s only natural. And it is part of what makes life so interesting. Hopefully you appreciate it more than you begrudge it.

Things happen for a reason and make us who we are.

We are to decide where it takes us.

And yes I know tragedy too. I know what it feels like to lose loved ones to disease, disasters, or from the cause of another’s hand. I know what it’s like to have your house burn in a fire and to lose everything you own.

But does that make me depressed and lost?

Of course not, I cherish my life and am so thankful to those who have played such a great role to me in it. I know what it feels like to live and appreciate all that comes with it- good or bad can be decided on how you view things. It all leads to who you are and that is a good thing. I am eternally thankful to my experiences. I also feel honored to have experienced and glimpsed into the lives of such wonderful and genuine people.

It only makes you stronger; And wil make your image stronger too. Conquer your emotions and create new ones that inspire and bring forth happiness and beauty into your life, and the lives of others.

Helping yourself become your best possible self is the true step to helping others. Because when you are strong with something great to offer, you are in a position to do greatness.

“You will be empowered to think, dress, speak, breathe, look and act in a manner that will maximize your potential. Teach yourself self-confidence and self awareness by following the steps outlined in “The Importance of Image”. Learn the secrets that other successful, confident and wealthy individuals enjoy. This book will inspire, challenge and support you to make the choices to reflect your own increasingly abundant lifestyle.”

Gabrielle Teare
London’s Leading Personal Stylist and Image Consultant
www.gabrielleteare.com

“Every day people make instant decisions about you. If you’d like to make the majority of them positive, then Teresa Merchant will be your guide. She tells you what it takes to make people say ‘WOW’ after seeing you.”

Matt Furey
Author of Combat Conditioning
www.mattfurey.com

It Is About Getting The Guidance

With The Right Tools To Get You There

These Bombshell Beauty principles are designed to directly affect your quality of life, self confidence, beauty, and even the success of your career

They are here so you will be able to do all the things you’ve wanted, to become the true person you are. So you can be filled with happiness and success and move forward at incredible speed.

I have put these secrets together in such a way that not only are they easy to understand, but they are also incredibly simple to put into action (very much the way my mother and aunt presented them to me). Explore and let them start working for you to bring you to higher places. After all, you’re worth it!

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It happened when I was fifteen years old.  And for you to understand the significance in the end of this story, we have to first go back to how Thanksgiving in my home was taken place. Entertaining our guests was a big part of the holidays in our home. We would have business associates, friends, and family members at our house for libations, h’or d’oeuvres, and a dinner designed for royalty.

Getting the house prepared, the silverware polished, the napkins folded, and of course the food prepared would involve much time and planning. It was almost routine we did this so often for both Thanksgiving and Christmas. All the food was prepared, save for what needed to be made just before serving. Everything was ready in the refrigerator or freezer for proper warming up when the time came.

Now back to when I was fifteen and was enjoying the simple pleasures of a holiday break from school. Be forewarned this story is a very personal look into my life, but reveals a strong greatness rising out of a deep sadness. Balancing school with the events made for a strict schedule, and now I could finally relax and enjoy my silence and time a bit more and without a care. I loved this season. I remember going to bed that evening, having said goodnight to my Auntie, and worrying not of the morning to follow. Now was the time to rest, snuggle up in the coziness of my bed, and sleep until I wanted to wake up.

It would have been that simple if it hadn’t been for the soreness in my throat that woke me up in the odd hours of the morning. Frustrated with the idea of ruining the holiday with a sickness, for some reason or other it seemed like a good idea to get out of the house and get some fresh air.

Let me explain the thinking in that. It turns out that I was not catching a cold, but rather that my bedroom had been completely filled with smoke and my throat was sore from the heat. Something about sleeping in a bed with smoke filling in can make you delusional. That, I very much was. Delusional, but awake.

I remember getting out of the house, and as I took a step to get up I smelled something that I feared was a gas leak. I told myself not to touch anything metal, because if I caused a spark it could be disastrous. Seriously I was out of my head, but whatever logic I came up with did get me out of the house. I had been so accustomed to the smoke in my sleep, that in my awakened state I only “thought” there might be some small amount of smoke when I called the fire department.

The next thing I remember is the fire truck arriving and upon opening the doors, just tons of black smoke billowing out like a storm. I found myself coughing black ash for quite some time. Aparently the smoke naturally makes you fall asleep, and my waking up was beyond natural.

My mother and father were not in the house that evening, but my Aunt was and did not make it out. She had passed before I had awoken..and with her bedroom only steps away from mine I was very close behind. Only one of our pets, a very clever siamese cat, survived the event with me. We both sat outside covered in black watching it all unfold.

What would otherwise be considered a horrible event has another perspective within it, and another event that holds an even stronger memory with me from that very same day.

You see, our house was in a U-shape, with the bedrooms on one far end, office and entertaining areas in the middle, and dinning and kitchen at the other end. The fire had begun in the furthest bedroom and had never made it into the kitchen. In the kitchen where the previously prepared food still remained, untouched, and ready to be remembered.

This was my last meal prepared by us all, but enjoyed with only those closest to me instead of the crowd. I’ll never forget that moment, sitting on the floor of what was left of our home, with beautiful dishes and incredible food. Nothing has ever topped that meal for me, or the happiness combined with the tastes within that memory. This was the first time my mother and I had enjoyed the food we worked so hard on just on our own with no distractions- the focus was pure gratitude.

My aunt who had passed away was with us that moment as well through the food she had prepared, and I like to think of it as a happy and grateful time as she has given me so much. Everything happens for a reason and I am grateful for them all.

In the only room left undamaged in the house, where no one else would join us, it was the most magnificent meal in honor of thanks, in the simplest of settings and the closest of connections.

Life is amazing and there is always so much to be grateful for, even when we least expect to find it. It is there and it is strongest in those moments. I share this story with you because I hope the perspective and insight strengthens the things you are most grateful for- the times, the people, the memories, and your life. It is up to you to make it the greatest, and there are people there to create that path along with you.

I lost nearly all my physical possessions that day, but gained more than I was even aware I had. Amazing how you can lose so much and yet gain unbelievable amounts more all in one moment. My eyes opened in a new way that Thanksgiving, and my life has become stronger from it.

In this message they were referring to my interests, lifestyle, and knowledge in skills. I had to laugh and smile, but then it got me thinking. Am I a real life fairy tale? I must say I kind of like that.

Fairy tales are stories of our dreams, imaginations, and often lead to overcoming fears and situations so that we may reach our desires and live happily ever after.

I can definitely say that about my life!

There were many things to overcome including many tragedies and hardships. But because I have always believed in myself, and in my principles- I did what was needed to reach my goals and my dreams.

I knew when there was something I had to overcome, I needed to focus on learning what to do and then take action!

And now I am living a fairy tale life- that is to say, the life I want and have always wanted and dreamed about. I made it my own reality.

And I credit the skills and techniques I discovered for strengthening my confidence and keeping true to my image. These secrets have given me so much, and so now I provide them in the Bombshell Beauty Grand Collection.

What are you doing to make your Fairy Tale a reality- Are you focusing on what you want and taking the actions needed to see them through?

Sometimes we need the guidance of others to revive those dreams and make them a reality.

Perhaps my mind was playing in Wonderland, but the other day I found myself in the role of the Mad Hatter, exclaiming “Change Places!” to my furniture.

Well, maybe not out loud but I was definitely thinking it inside my head. I like to move the furniture in my house every now and then. It isn’t that there is something wrong with the way it looks, it is just that my attitude and focus has changed, and so my environment must change with it.

Moving furniture around isn’t the only way to change your scenery, you can do so mentally as well. It’s about gaining a new perspective and keeping your mind entertained and focused. Our minds and bodies are constantly growing in new directions, and as we move forward and advance, so must our surroundings.

This involves anything and everything from the motions of your routines, the people you surround yourself with, the food you keep in your house, and how you relate to those around you.

If you are feeling uncomfortable in a certain area of your life, or feel you are lacking confidence- what are you doing to change it for the better?

Staying in the same place will only keep you there, sooner or later it is time to make a move- a change, and increase your confidence and happiness.

So challenge yourself to do something and change your settings into one of success for your confidence, your beauty, and your career. It’s your success and it is waiting for you to call it. You don’t have to do it alone either, there is always a coach available to guide you along the way. Polish up those areas in which you have been avoiding, bring some fresh light into view and take control of who you are.

The Bombshell Beauty Grand Collection

Much Love and Best Regards,

Teresa Merchant
“Bombshell Kitten”

The other day we had such beautiful amounts of sunshine pouring into our home that we couldn’t resist going outside for a little sun by the pool.

There’s nothing unusual about this for us, but normally when I close my eyes and soak up the sun or read a book- instead, this time I soaked in my surroundings.

We are in a mid-rise luxury complex, and so my view from the pool was of the building and its many homes. The architecture is simple and elegant, and so the only thing that can really stand out from the building is the balconies.

Now, the balconies vary in size, but everywhere I looked I noticed the same thing, which was pretty much nothing. Empty balconies, maybe a chair here and there but nothing to catch the eye in the least. Some of these balconies may never even have been given the time of day from their owners.

Then there was one balcony, directly in front of the chair from which I was sitting. This was something to behold, and it caught my attention quickly. Two lions and an Angel- beautiful well placed statues graced their balcony, along with a large plant in either corner, and table and chairs in the center. Everything was placed with thought and you could see that it was often attended to. Wow, who were these people? They were someone I would like to meet.

The details were so well thought out- just the simple things. Elegant, clean, simple- they cared about their home and themselves greatly, and with purpose. In a crowd, they would gain my attention and curiosity in an instant- just as their balcony did. I am sure of it.

When we go out each and every day, we carry our own balconies- our own image. Does your “balcony” or image blend in unnoticed into the crowds, or is it one to be admired and gain respect for.

It is all in how much we pay attention to the details every day, and to take the time, the few moments, each day to enhance and strengthen who we are for the world to see.

One of my fondest memories from childhood comes from the stories of Alice In Wonderland and Through The Looking Glass. I’ve always adored letting my imagination soar.

Giving life to different ways of thinking and seeing how some ideas we fear can grow to become a confident and comfortable part of our lives. Anything is possible in the imagination.

With fantasy comes a glimpse of reality- they run side by side and play together. And when you look at yourself in the mirror, who or what do you see?

Is it a fantasy, one perhaps you wish to make a reality- do you see your fears or do you see your strengths and successes?

For Alice, her looking was keeping her trapped inside a world of fantasy. So strong, that her worries kept her from recognizing her talent and capabilities, her chance and ability to grow. But she faced those demons, and became someone strong and confident.

Maybe Alice was a child overcoming her fears, but she did face her Jaberwocky in time to grow up and have tea with the adults. Not alone- not really, she had guides to help her along the way. She was never alone, and when it came time to face reality she still had her mother to show her the proper steps.

We don’t have to accomplish new lessons alone, there are coaches available to guide us through the difficulties and make it a smooth and comfortable process. It is why I offer coaching for those seeking the expertise and insight they desire in their lives, to benefit and strengthen from.

Sometimes we need to get through the looking glass and become the image we have always wanted to be. We just need to see it first, and take the guidance necessary to get there.

We are all capable of growing stronger and more confident in our lives- we hold a greatness within us. Do you see your true talent when you look through the mirror- or is there a Jaberwocky stopping you.

Which side of the looking glass are you on?

I love how one party turns into meeting old friends, creating new ones, and new parties to do the same.

Late last year we attended what was Timothy’s 20 year high school reunion. Needless to say, there were many faces that I would not know, mostly all of them. But I had such a wonderful time meeting all of these new people who shared so many memories with Timothy. The stories and laughter made room for plenty of new ones.

On that night, Timothy connected with an old friend he hadn’t seen in nearly twenty years; his wife, who had gone to a different school and was lost in the sea of unfamiliar faces along with me- well, we instantly had a bond and made an especially grand evening out of the event.

Skip forward to last night, and we were delighted to attend a party in celebration of Timothy’s high school friend’s 40th birthday party- and what a party!

His wife, an amazing lady who knows the secrets to hosting a gorgeous party while attending to her guests with ease, truly made this an event to remember.

Everything was presented so beautifully and the appetizers were stirring up all sorts of conversations. She really went for the details too- and they were greatly appreciated by the guests, we all felt so cared for and important- not to mention making it easier for the evening to move along- We didn’t know anyone who would be attending. But being the great host she was- this was not a problem at all, in fact it became such a treat.

She knew how to introduce her guests and make them feel at home, and the conversations were just growing one after the other after the other. Within moments we were all having a blast as if we had known each other forever.

Stories were told, cocktails enjoyed- some delicious margaritas especially, and even cigars were had. The music was so perfect before we knew it we were all dancing and having a ball.

It isn’t a party until the cops show up, right?

No, no one got arrested or in any sort of trouble, but we did get some attention for the music, which made us all only remember the party more. And on good terms. We laughed and continued on, keeping everything in check- the party moved on flawlessly.

But that is the beauty if being a great host- constantly in control, at ease, and bringing delight and comfort to your guests for memories to be shared and treasured by all.

We made so many new friends last night, it was such a treat! And to be able to do it all under the comfort of a lovely party is even better.

We are all looking forward to many more parties in our future, and who knows who we will meet next. We’ll be ready!

Timothy’s mother was traveling out of town and as my mother has passed away it is often a quiet and reflecting day.

We were kindly invited by a friend of ours to spend the day with his family, who we are very fond of- we enjoy our time with them, but this time I discovered something new and unexpected.

It all started simple enough with beers and cocktails by the pool as we soaked up some delightful sun rays. The children were playing in the pool and then someone near us out of no where brings a box of Popsicles for us all. Wow, I couldn’t remember the last time I had the old fashioned Popsicle! I had to indulge.

Then another treat appeared- our friends had brought cigars to share with us for a lovely afternoon together. I do love a nice cigar as I find them very relaxing, and it is an even greater experience when you have the friends to enjoy them with.nOne of the neighbors was very surprised by this, and said “I’ve never met a lady who enjoyed cigars before!”

To which my friend answered, “Teresa is a very unique lady- which is why we like her!”

As we finished our cigars we returned to the house to continue conversations and relax after all the sun. It was at this moment where I discovered something I wasn’t expecting to.

Our friend’s father and I began discussing about unique strong women, and as both of our mothers had passed away- they were instantly in our minds with great pride and admiration.

His mother was an elegant and strong woman, she held her values greatly and was always confident, beautiful, and true. She had many children to take care of on her own when her husband passed away- but she never let anything stop her. Strong and beautiful, she would always speak delicately, have her hair styled in a gorgeous updo, and provide for her children with delicious food, a comfortable home, and running her own business for her children.

He told me how each time he would look at her he could see the strength, power, and love just from her appearances alone. She had such a great image- one that leaves an impression and inspires others to become great.

She reminded me of my mother, and the image that she left with me and all that it has done for my life.

It is what my mother would always do. She would always be strong, she would always be confident, she would always believe in herself and in her child, and she would always believe in her image. She was someone people loved to be around, they were happy just to see her and feel her presence. She inspired them and made them feel confident, too.

Images last forever, and they play in our minds each time we think of someone. Making a powerful image for yourself comes with expanding your knowledge and practicing in what matters most to you.

Make your image strong and unique- and take inspiration in the others who do, too.

Sometimes our mothers give us so much more than we realize, and the memories and lessons live on with us forever.

It is up to us what we decide to do with those lessons and images.

But this is not where the goodbye became another hello- that opportunity would be arriving as we returned home- and because of what all started at dinner.

About halfway through the evening, our neighbor’s daughter began discussing how her middle school graduation would be coming up soon. This would mean buying a dress just for the occasion, and perhaps one only for this occasion as well; she didn’t know how often a white formal dress would be worn by her.

I had mentioned to her that I have many white dresses, one in particular that would be perfect for her (with shoes to match, naturally) if she wanted to take a look. She was excited and relieved, yet she had no idea what else would become of this evening.

Once we returned home and the two of us escaped to play with my closet, I was reminded of a pair of shoes that, like the white ones I would be lending her, no longer fit me. Unfortunately, about two years ago my feet decided to change another full size up, leaving many of my favorite collection pieces to become merely a piece of art on my closet shelves.

One in particular I had difficultly letting go of was a brown pair of Prada heels- with a very  distinctive heel design and the softest leather you can imagine. I adore these shoes, but even though I no longer could fit in them I kept them for the memories and the way they made me feel.

Well, with her in the room and realizing how I had forgotten about them until now- it was clear to me that it was time for them to move on to another. At first, I just let her try them on to see how she felt about them and how she felt with them on her.

WOW, they fit her perfectly and she had never felt leather like it before- she was mad about them, and instantly her posture straightened and her smile and face were glowing.

“They’re yours, keep them,” I said to her.

I didn’t think her eyes or smile could get any wider than they already were- but wow, she looked so confident and so happy I knew I had done them right thing.

Passing along a “piece of confidence” can happen in many different ways- from items we can hold or wear, to stories that inspire us, or being included in lessons hidden from the rest of the world.

All those little things add up, and it is the small things that matter to us. When we think of them we smile.

That is what the lessons my Mother and Aunt passed on to me are- a powerful collection of pieces of confidence. The stories, rules, and lessons that change the way you walk and feel- making you smile with confidence from the inside out.

They are the lessons I include in the “Bombshell Beauty Grand Collection” to inspire and guide others with the greatness they have given me.

I’ll never forget the memories of those Prada shoes, they are still alive and active, but now as I say goodbye to them living in my closet, I watch them say hello to a whole new memory and life.

Best Regards,

Teresa Merchant
“Bombshell Kitten”

PS- Sometimes we find more inspiration than we go out to seek, we expect answers to some of our questions and then discover a new world that has been waiting for us.

When you seek to improve your confidence, your confidence rewards you greater than first imagined.

Late last night my fiance, Timothy, and I returned home after some lovely travels. Nothing extreme, just a quick visit to Tampa for some meetings- and time with friends!

Each time we attend these meetings, it has become a tradition for a group of us to all leave the hotel and go out for an amazing dinner at our favorite fine dining restaurant- and each time the group grows larger and more excited than the last.

All these meetings can stir up quite the appetite, and having a chance to sit back, relax, enjoy a glass of wine and talk amongst friends is what it is all about. And it is amazing what you can find out about those around you from  something as simple and wonderful as dinner.

Wine- we quickly discovered that all of us loved wine at the table and were ready for a glass. But then as conversations began and names were spoken from the list- something different happened.

Instead of everyone keeping to themselves, privately ordering a glass and then continuing on… we explored through conversation.

“You know, I’ve never been able to tell the difference between white wines, they all look the same to me and I never know what to expect,” a friend sitting next to me casually says just thinking out loud to himself.

It was at that moment something magical happened- I began informing him of a few simple characteristics to look for and we started to discover what he liked and had recognized in the past. He was excited- and ready to see these tips in action.

A treat was that this restaurant offers wine flights- in this case three glasses, each with a 2oz pour so that you can taste various styles of wines, and they let you chose any on the list. We decided to go for two flights all of various white wines so that he could see side by side what he liked and what to look for.

On his own, from just the few words we shared before the tasting, he was an instant master!

“Wow, this one is so crisp and has a spice- I’ll have to remember that, I like this!” and then..

“Oh, wow- well these three all have this same quality, and I know now I definitely do not like it! I’m glad I tried it and know what to avoid in the future, what an amazing experience!”

I let him know that he could find more of these tips and techniques in the “Bombshell Beauty Grand Collection”- and he was excited to discover more and then quickly jump on all the red wine varietals.

All this excitement drew attention at the table and before I knew it he was telling the story of each wine to those around him, allowing those who wanted a taste to do so. They were amazed at his wine knowledge and confidence at the table.

I could see him smile thinking the same, and delighted how easy and fun it all was.

It made me smile too and enjoy my wine with my friends even more, I love when the simplest of things can create the greatest of experiences.

Much Love and Best Regards,

Teresa Merchant
“Bombshell Kitten”

PS – Yes, even men adore what the “Bombshell Beauty Grand Collection” has to offer. The principles and style guides
include a place for gentlemen, too- and I keep the beauty secrets for the ladies still included because all men have women in their lives who can benefit from it.

Perhaps it is a daughter, sister, spouse, cousin, or friend- it gives them a new appreciation and something to share with those closest to them.